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In Memory of Bob Miller: A True Southern Gentleman

In Memory of Bob Miller: A True Southern Gentleman

Published by: David Cate
November 4, 2024

Last today, I found myself reflecting on the remarkable life of Bob Miller, who passed away at the incredible age of 106. Bob was probably the oldest man I will ever have the privilege to meet—only about 1.5% of American males reach such a milestone.

As I reminisced about our encounters, I revisited my archives of 90,000 images and was transported back to a beautiful day when Bob was walking the newly opened trail at the Greenbelt to Cleek Road. Ironically, the last photograph I took of him was on November 4, 2024, as he headed eastward along the same path. Even at 106, Bob was hard to catch, and I found myself out of breath, despite being 40 years younger.

Our first meeting was unforgettable—Bob zip-lining through the trees on his 100th birthday! From that day forward, we crossed paths at Chamber gatherings and enjoyed more thrilling centenarian adventures. While I captured photos of Bob on these occasions, it was our conversations that truly resonated and will echo in my memory forever.

One conversation stands out from our walk on the Greenbelt when Bob was 102. I knew he must have been asked countless questions throughout his long life, and I wanted to approach it from a unique angle. I inquired about the most amazing thing he had witnessed in his lifetime. Without hesitation, he responded, "Radio."

His eyes lit up as he described how this invention transformed family life, bringing them together to listen to what many refer to as the "Theatre of the Mind." Despite living in an age where computers and smartphones dominate our lives, Bob's memories highlighted the profound impact of simpler times.

Bob was more than just an extraordinary centenarian; he was a mentor in health and wellness, embodying the prototype of a Southern gentleman. I discovered, through Facebook comments, that during his time in assisted living, the residents affectionately coined a slogan for him, reflecting his delightful personality and zest for life. Bob was a true legend in Kingsport, known for his intellect and determination to live healthily.

When I discussed a fitting tribute with Kitty Frazier, she agreed that the image of Bob on the Greenbelt would capture his love for the trail perfectly. Her heartfelt sentiments echoed my own: "Happy Trails, Bob." What an incredible life you lived, and what a shining example of the Kingsport spirit you embodied.

I consider myself fortunate to have walked and talked with Bob Miller. His legacy will forever inspire me to embrace life with health, zeal, and the kindness he so effortlessly shared. The phrase "Be Like Bob," which has become a heartfelt tribute among those who knew him, encourages us all to adopt his values of joy, resilience, and community spirit.

Be Like Bob.